Hey there, just wanna update on what i am doing nowadays. For those who dunno, i am in CMPB awaiting to become a pilot trainee. Chances are, i think i will fail the first few trials. Cos i know i am not Pilot calibre, but i will give my best so dun feel sad for me :)

Well, life seems pretty boring for me right now, like nothing to look forward to? My faith is failing and my friends are getting busy. No girl to talk to, the only people i talk to also are going through hard times. Life seems pretty bad at this point of time. I no longer get free food and have to pay for transport, food and recreation and that is blowing a hole in my pocket. SIGH.

Maybe thats growing up? learning to live with lesser. I dunno...

OH, i know, i will start a new topic that i can talk about online. I shall name it...

.........The Cube : Perspectives from a single...........

Hmmm, why a cube. Here's why, sometimes we are like squares, we see things in straight logic, and even if we try hard to escape the system of life, we end back to square one. Pretty Square eh...

Well, hopefully my 3D ponderings can help me unravel the mysteries of life that bugs me so. Lets see, what shall we talk about today?

" should students get hitched? "

Hmmmm, well lets get one things straight. Its natural for all to "fall in love" when we start hitting puberty, when our PPs develop and bodies start maturing. But should students start dating?

For me, I have started dating girls since i was in primary school. My first girl was my buddy, we hit along well, and weirdly she would follow me everywhere i go. er... i think i will stop there.

Thinking about restraints when dating as students... firstly is time. Time might not really be on our side. But when both parties are in school with similar lifestyles, it is actually not a bad thing. But like when i entered Poly, irregular timings make dating slightly more complex.

Next is monetary capability. As students we still live off our parents, unless you actually bother to work, we do not have the ability to bring our dates to great expensive places most of the time. Well, lucky you if you and your partner have cheap similar hobbies that you both dun mind doing everytime you meet... And going dutch for a date, coming up with the most "romantic" date all the time is seriously draining...

another factor i feel that might pose as a danger for students is ... SEXUAL CURIOSITY.. yeah the big S word that every body knows. With the media nowadays, maybe even kindergarden kids will know how to have sex. and it brainwashes us into the wrong mindset of relationships. And i tell you, once you engage even once, prepare to be part of a downward spiral. Only morals and strong determination can save you in this area. We should learn to respect the opposite sex, and try to lay off those itchy hands.

Another factor is mindset, honestly in secondary school when we grow up slightly faster, we think we are matured and can handle bigger things. Well, sorry kids, even adults screw up big time. You think you know "love"? sadly, sometimes we have to go through like 3-4 breakups to know slightly what we want from our partners.

Yeah, so i feel like students can date, in fact you should. But I suggest that all students stay in the dating mode till they are older then get abit more serious. Believe me, you will not regret it.

Always keep your options open too, the person you are dating may not be the one for you. Maybe you were attracted to the person for some reasons, but keep it open. You will really know if the person is meant for you.

And if you wanna get very serious, date at least a year. Get to know the person inside out. You will need to reflect lots.

Anyway, I do not regret all the relationships i have been in...

Sigh and if you break up, its not the end of the world. The Sea is very very big, there are alot of fishes. So do not fret!

( oh yeah, a lady told me that if a girl wants to break up with you, usually its because they most likely fell for someone else. So keep the open mindset! it will save you ! )

if you are a student and you do not have someone, take the time to study hard and invest in yourself. Cos in the end life is like a business, you dun wanna check the balance sheet and shake your head when you see the times wasted away on someone not of worth.

In the end, learn to love yourself more. Loving yourself is the first step to freedom. Loving others is how you live your life, but you do not hold yourself accountable to others, you hold yourself accountable to yourself. You lose if you do not give it your all.

K enough on this, gotta get some rest. Good night folks :)